Friends or not friends? Help!?!?

my friend is like to exact opposite of me. I'm a loud speak out person, she's really shy. I'm funny, she isn't. She makes pretty lame jokes about unusual things. And well, we have a class together which is an acting class and it's really hard to be partners with eachother, because I want to stand out when she just wants to stay shy. I dunno but things are pretty rough, when us and our other friends hang out with eachother. She just wants to lay back when we all plan to go somewhere fun. And it been a real drag. Since me and all of my friends like to go together as our WHOLE group, we don't go to places very much. What do I do?

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simple just take you and you shy friend out for a time together just to talk and laugh. make her feel special and wanted in the GROUP it works. she might also have something on her mind that she's worried about so it help to talk to her

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All my friends ditched me for Halloween!?

I was supposed to be with my 2 and ONLY friends and sister for halloween, but:

My friend Janet decided that she is going with her other friends and said "if I am not doing anything, i will treat or treat with you' as if I am plan B. And I asked to go with her and she said 'just go with your other friends'. !

My other friend decided trick or treating is lame and she just wants to take her little bro trick or treating with my sister and me and then watch scary movies. But i wanted to dress up and have fun! But now I can't.

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Bummer. Try to make the best of it. They are just worried about looking immature and all. Go with your bro and have fun and enjoy the movie. You may be pleasantly surprised and have a really good time! Next year you will probably be at a party!

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Same thing with me...why do you think im on yahoo!?! Well my friend didnt really "ditch" me but she just didnt even say anything and went with her bros, but atleast she said she will let me have some of her candy *evil laugh*
Put your costume on and pack a mask or some costume piece with you for your "oooh it's to laaammmme" girlfriend, go with her as she takes her brother! Laugh and joke have a good time and about the second house pull out the costume piece for her and I bet she loves it and winds up having a great time!
That's messed up...Don't worry my Halloween was boring too...
1. if you live near a college town- drive there. pick a random party, and hang out!

2. if your 21+- head immediately to local bar.

3. go to the movies?

4. rent a scary movie?

5. don't be afraid
suggest haunted houses to girl number 2 since she thinks its lame.Also invite aqquaitences from school on holidays like this anything goes.

and forget girl #1 because friends should put you first or invite you,hwta is she doin that you cant do too?

Just think about that have fun whether its with others or by yourself.

Because like i said you could meet new people from this holiday just be social,nice,and look like your having a good time because noone wants to be with a moper while collecting free candy!!!
Dress up as a serial killer and get a real knife and go pay Janet and her other friends a visit...

As for the other friend, if she's sleeping over, just wait until she falls asleep, go over to where she's sleeping. A jab here, a slash there...and then you won't have to worry about having bad friends anymore cuz they'll be dead!
something similar happened to me!

I was suppose to go with my bestfriend and my only friend (i'm in home schooling in a bad place =\ tho)

treat or treating but i couldn't get a ride and she ditched me so everybody else went out and is having fun when i'm stuck at home. I was really upset at first but i put on my costume and is doing my own thing. i'm going to have a scary movie mathron later on. So dress up in your costume even if you have nothing to do and Play some music! whether it's to let out how you feel or to make you feel better and watch some scary movies. it worked for me, it should work atleast a little for you =] sorry i can't help anymore.
You can still have fun. Go out with your other friend, her brother, and your sister and do the trick or treating thing. Don't let your 2 friends upset you. It isn't worth it trust me, go out and have fun. Hopefully next year will be a bit different for you. GOOD LUCK!

Losing friends.....?

Can anyone else count their friends on 1 hand? It seems like the older I get, the less friends I have. I like to think of it as weeding out the bad and keeping the good, but there are times that I miss going out with a "group" of friends instead of a couple. Do you lose friends with age?

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Yes, I think so. I think as we grow older, our lives change quite a bit. We move around, leave jobs, leave neighborhoods, our children grow up, etc., and we lose some of those bonds that kept us involved with those friends. And sometimes we do outgrow certain friends. Enjoy the ones you have, they are special.

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yes i think this is true, as you go get older, people tend to go in different directions, whether its marriage, kids, whatever, if they were true to you in the start, then there would be no reason as to why it ended.
The older u get u seem to realize that every person u considered ur "friend" when u were younger weren't exactly your friends. Maybe you've outgrown them. Maybe they've outgrown u. Either way, sometimes less is more...
I lost all my friends when I got married. After the divorce, got some back and made new friends. Why stop with the friends you have when you can simply make more friends?
don know

better for u to keep those u trust than hang out with a large group of idiots
a true friend will always b there it doesnt matter what age my dear!!!!!!!!!!!
i use to be able to count my friends on one hand,until recently.maybe if your married or wit someone your friends don't like the guy.i divorced my ex husband and it seems all my friends came back.plus i also got new friends.i got a new man and they all adore him,think hes a perfect gentleman and all,i also hang out with some of his friends who became my friends
well mabey its just that the older you are growing you get diffrent intrests theres nothing wrong with that,but you probrably dont realize whats happening. but if they were true blue friends they would try something else also. so really its not your fault
Yes, I do anyway, I think it's a sign of your maturity when you outgrow those around you. Best advise is try to include or meet new people in your activities. It may seem difficult, but eventually you'll make new friends. People come %26amp; go it's part of life, learning how to deal with it is the tough part.
It's true...i mean as you get older everyone's views turn out differently. Some go for the good road and other go for the bad road. You find out who really cares for you, who is willing to stay friends with you because they see what you see in them.
as we grow older we each go our separate ways and there are a very few people who get to keep most or alto of there friends they either move or get there own family but they want to call or even go bye but they haven't in so long they think i might as well not go to SOS and SOS house its been so long they may not want them around. but that is n't usually true. a good friend always loves to see there good friends. no matter how long they have been apart.
yes, to me it seems people move on,get busy with their own lives that friendship is not as important as family anymore. I'm guilty of that! then when you need some friends there gone. don't get me wrong i have a few good friends but not like when i was in my early 20's. i think today it takes work to keep up with friends or you will lose them. know matter what the age -
yeah.. i still have friends but their the close one.. i miss the rest.. we party and did everything friday night and saturday night..

I have a friend who keeps things from me and her other friends?

She ditches us at lunch to sit with her "popular" friend..... and i asked her why she didn't tell me or my friends... her excuse was " I had to talk to alex about a personal matter." I ask her why she couldn't tell us..since she tells us everything. her other excuse was " I just know alix better"

That's a lie since i've known my friend longer than she's know alex and. She also has a cell phone and when me or my friends try to call her, she nevers anwsers but once i blocked out my number and she anwsered. Is she really a good friend or not? Please Help!

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tell her that i would like my friend back and y cant alex sit at are table with us or y cant we sit at alexs table if she dont answer she isnt a loyal friend she will come back...

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noo she is not a good friend if she knew you longer and she exclaims that she knew alex longer then that is not a true friend shes keeping things from you and she doesnt answer your calls anymore only when its blocked then shes avoiding you thats a fake friend dump her if you have more true friends than her hang out wiit dem 4get her its what you wonna do
I think you already know the answer.

Look, it's cool how you seem to stick by your friends no matter what, but in this case, Alex doesn't appreciate you and you deserve someone who likes you just as much as you like them.

Good Luck!
OMG that happened to me too, wats alex's last name she sounds like the alex i now. well u don't have to tell me but shes abvoulisy turning into one of them and ill tell u one thing i've also been in that situtation and they test u to see if u that the tilent to ditch ur friends and hang out with them.

MY BEST FRIENDS DAD DIED/funeral car wash or knotts with boyfriend?

My best friends dad just died monday night on the 8th. She is always smiling around me but then later some stranger comes up 2 me and they are like you know ________ was crying like all last period. So I got all of her friends to help me make a big giant card 4 her. We are going to give it 2 her when she has her funeral car wash so she can raise money 4 her dads funeral. That leads me into another promblem... The day she is having the funeral car wash is the same day my boyfriend is going 2 knotts scary farm with me. My friend thats dad died told me 2 go 2 knotts cuz SHE WANTS ME 2 HAVE FUN but I think that, that would B messed up if i ditched my best friend for my boyfriends that i've been gong out with since tuesday(BUT I LIKE HIM SO MUCH). All her our friends are like I wouldn't do that but I don't know about u.What do I tell her 3 make her feel better? Where should i go? Should I help her gain money at the car wash 4 the funeral?OR...Should I ditch her 4 my boyfriend 2 go 2 knotts?

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Boyfriends come and go - friends are for a lifetime - if you're *true* friends....

The decision is ultimately yours to make - but think about how you would feel if the roles were reversed....Knotts will be there AFTER your friends dads funeral....

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Hello!!! go with your friend!!!
go with ur best friend and then go out with ur BF some other time
You can do both. Car wash during the day, Knotts at night.

And just for a point: I don't know of anyone who would "ditch" their best friend. Especially in a time of need such as this.
i think your bf would understand that you NEED to go to the car wash. in fact, invite him to help! it would be a good time to see if he has any sensitivity or not.
let me see boyfriend i just started dating and knotts not-so-scary farm or best friends whose dad just died....thats really hard!! what a friend you are!!
the best thing to do i is try to make you frind happy try not to say anything about the father try to spend most of your time with your frind untill they get a good settel over it
help her with the carwash, its the best thing to do
Well, I personally think that staying by your friend's side would be the best thing to do. I mean, she lost her father. It's probably really hard on her.

I mean, I understand that you also wanto spend time with your boyfriend, and no matter what others say, that's completely normal.

I'm just saying, If you were you I'd explain to my boyfriend that you need to be there to support your best friend. He should understand, and if he gets mad at you, then leave him!
GO WITH YOUR FRIEND!!!

shes in neeed of support right now and to tell you the truth, you wouldnt be a very good best friend if you went with your boyfriend to an amusment park.
Choose who you care the most about and go from there. If you are the one you care about the most, then you will go to the Knotts Scary Farm.

To live with no regrets, you should make choices that will cause the least harm, and dilute the most misery. Do stuff that matters.
i cant believe you are even thinking about this, you are supposed to be her BEST friend but you are being kind of a lousy one right now.
If I was in your shoes, I would go to the car wash. Best Friends are forever!!! Boyfriends come and go.
I think you should definitely go to the carwash, which you already knew that is why you asked the question. Knotts will be there a few more weekends I am sure, you can catch it another day.
Boy's come and go while TRUE friends last a lifetime.

Wouldn't you want your bestfriend to be there for you if the situation were reversed? Let's be REAL!

Missing old friends?

i moved from stl to this little town and i am missing all my old freinds and dont know how to deal with it. me and my friend havae been friends forever and now i am in a little town and have very few friends who i can realte to. i use to be a cutter and had a few friends that helped me through that in stl, now in this town veryone thinks im a creep for doin it in the past. my friends in stl were all happy when i told them i was preganant and the people down here are soo mean! i am 14 and i do understand taht its wrong, but once again i dont want the crap from everyone. my bf lives down here with me, he is also the father of my child and is happy, we are always together and he is like the only person who understands me

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first, its not normal to be pregnant at 14. but its more unhealthy that a friend doesnt support their friends.

Losing friends.....?

Can anyone else count their friends on 1 hand? It seems like the older I get, the less friends I have. I like to think of it as weeding out the bad and keeping the good, but there are times that I miss going out with a "group" of friends instead of a couple. Do you lose friends with age?

Losing friends.....?tiny myspace

Yes, I think so. I think as we grow older, our lives change quite a bit. We move around, leave jobs, leave neighborhoods, our children grow up, etc., and we lose some of those bonds that kept us involved with those friends. And sometimes we do outgrow certain friends. Enjoy the ones you have, they are special.

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yes i think this is true, as you go get older, people tend to go in different directions, whether its marriage, kids, whatever, if they were true to you in the start, then there would be no reason as to why it ended.
The older u get u seem to realize that every person u considered ur "friend" when u were younger weren't exactly your friends. Maybe you've outgrown them. Maybe they've outgrown u. Either way, sometimes less is more...
I lost all my friends when I got married. After the divorce, got some back and made new friends. Why stop with the friends you have when you can simply make more friends?
don know

better for u to keep those u trust than hang out with a large group of idiots
a true friend will always b there it doesnt matter what age my dear!!!!!!!!!!!
i use to be able to count my friends on one hand,until recently.maybe if your married or wit someone your friends don't like the guy.i divorced my ex husband and it seems all my friends came back.plus i also got new friends.i got a new man and they all adore him,think hes a perfect gentleman and all,i also hang out with some of his friends who became my friends
well mabey its just that the older you are growing you get diffrent intrests theres nothing wrong with that,but you probrably dont realize whats happening. but if they were true blue friends they would try something else also. so really its not your fault
Yes, I do anyway, I think it's a sign of your maturity when you outgrow those around you. Best advise is try to include or meet new people in your activities. It may seem difficult, but eventually you'll make new friends. People come %26amp; go it's part of life, learning how to deal with it is the tough part.
It's true...i mean as you get older everyone's views turn out differently. Some go for the good road and other go for the bad road. You find out who really cares for you, who is willing to stay friends with you because they see what you see in them.
as we grow older we each go our separate ways and there are a very few people who get to keep most or alto of there friends they either move or get there own family but they want to call or even go bye but they haven't in so long they think i might as well not go to SOS and SOS house its been so long they may not want them around. but that is n't usually true. a good friend always loves to see there good friends. no matter how long they have been apart.
yes, to me it seems people move on,get busy with their own lives that friendship is not as important as family anymore. I'm guilty of that! then when you need some friends there gone. don't get me wrong i have a few good friends but not like when i was in my early 20's. i think today it takes work to keep up with friends or you will lose them. know matter what the age -
yeah.. i still have friends but their the close one.. i miss the rest.. we party and did everything friday night and saturday night..