Friends with benefit with an ex?

I had been going out with a guy for about a year. We broke up a month ago but still stayed friends. He's a great guy, and I still feel like I love him and part of me wants him back. I have cried myself to sleep so many days, hurt and lost. But I don't think he feels the same. He told me he just wants us to be friends, and be able to fool around without the commitment. I do not know what to do. I don't just want to be his friend, but I can't not be his friend either.

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oh gosh....you have to look out for yourself first and what best for you. Its best to end any sexual relationship if you still have feelings for him. move on. no matter what the heart feels. it will be really hard but best for you. otherwise you will get hurt even more and the pain will be worse.

right now you're a f*** buddy...and you deserve better than that. Move on and hopefully find someone who will love all of you. Be optimistic and hopeful.

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It'll never work and you will end up even more upset - he just wants the sex until he finds someone else
In other words he wants you as a shagging girl - when he feels like sex he calls you up.

Move on
have u ever tried talking to him about how u feel? if u did%26amp;his still wanting the same thing, personally I would just say no to friends with benefits, but its really up to you on what you want.
you can't move on that way. thats unfair to you. you should either do the hard thing and leave or accept that what you're doing will work out and you'll just be unhappy until something ends up really hurting you, like him getting a new gf or something.
He's trying to use you. As a guy, hearing about guys like that who uses women and don't know how to appreciate them makes me sick and angry. If you fool around with him, you're just going to hurt yourself even more. You're obviously still very much attached to him. At this point, I'd really suggest you to keep your distance and heal those wounds first before deciding what to do with him. If you really want to be friends with him (and why would you want to with such a jerk anyway?), you can try again later. If he's really a true friend, he'd understand. He didn't want a relationship with you, just sex. Forget the asshole; he's trying to take advantage of you and use it. Don't give him the power, and don't let him do that to you. Be strong, and respect yourself.
no no no no no no no no no

dont be stupid

move on

no trust - no relationship

love yourself and recognise that this is about you not him!!!

he has no love for you and you are just a little depressed, people get like that after a failed relationship, remember it takes 2 to make a relationship work
He's made it crystal clear what he wants from you,he wants to fool around without any commitment.

So you really do have to let him go or this heartache is gonna go on forever.

He isn't gonna want you back in the same way you want him back,so try to be strong and keep what little self respect you have left.

This is one of those situations where you can't remain friends with him cos your feelings are too deep for him for that to work,so do yourself a favour and tell him you'd rather he no longer contacted you as you need to get on with your life as you realise you both want different things from eachother.

He's your ex for a reason,try to remember why that was!

It's no good covering old ground you've already been over.
Dont fall for the lets just be friends line, he wants to see who he wants when he wants and as much as your hurt , youve had a lucky escape