ok well im sick of this! my best friend has all of these guy friends and im stuck with the girlfriends and the arguements. it really sucks! shes not girly girl but skater and tom girl and sometimes shes just normal. well me im a cheerleader but im not girly girl. i keep on thinking its beacuse i think im fat but my friends say im not and i know there not telling me the truth. i think its because guys dont want to be friends with a girl who thinks shes fat.. i never get real boyfriends and she does.. im so jelious of her its not funny. but she hates her life.. i want guy friends but it jsut isnt working. i mean im shy and shes not and she gets out a little more than i do and she has alot of curage and im medium.. is that why? plz help!!!
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Why not hang with her and her male friends...Who knows they may get along with you great...I prefer guy friends, females have way to much drama for me...
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Take a deep breath and loosen up a little. Guys don't care if you're fat or not, but they *can* smell desperation from miles away... so you need to take it easy.
I think you have partially answered your own question-- being less shy, talking to other people, and going out more all help. You don't even have to start by going up and talking to the hottest guys... just start conversations with people who are absolutely no threat... total strangers, older people, next door neighbors, guys you don't care about one way or the other, and finally, guys you'd like to have as boyfriends. The ones who might become "real boyfriends" are people like anyone else, and talking to people is a life skill everyone has to develop.
As a last strategy, make a conscious decision to spend less time hanging out with the girlfriends, and people who are into drama and needless arguments, and *instead*, go where the guys are. It will happen for you.
Good Luck!
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