My friends dont like my boyfriend...?

so i am 20 years old and my boyfriend is 27 and my best friend and some of my other friends who are close with her dont like him because he has some tattoos and piercings and think hes wierd but i really like him and some of my other friends outside of that group think hes cool. I dont want to break up with him but i dont want to lose my friends or have it cause anymore problems what should i do?

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Listen to your friends. If the people who know you and love you think your bf is weird, they're probably right and you just can't see if.

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I find myself saying at least once a day here that friends are the worst thing for a relationship. Sadly your friends won't stop no matter what you do. They will persist until you break up with this guy. They will likely go as far as making up lies about him and justify it by convincing themselves that it's "for your own good."

If you want to keep both you can only ignore and endure.
screw them you like him just cos they think his weird you shouldnt leave him they should support your choice
hes your boyfriend..not theirs..and they're probably just jealous of your relationship with him..tell them that they need to keep their opinions to themselves..
maybe it does not matter you have to choose friends or man...

or...

maybe you should tell them this is the guy i choose to be with him right know and i would like it if you except my descion cause i like u both. and if you are not ok with that then maybe they are not acting like real friends
love happens in mysterious ways and despite the physical traits that come with the person, we are there for that person if we really is in love. When in doubt, listen to your inner self, maybe your friends are God's way of talking to you. As time passes by, we fall out of love just tread lightly so that there are no major regrets in the future. Enjoy the moments and if he could not deliver despite his appearance, then check out your beliefs is what you have is still giving you happiness or problems. You are the solution. What matters most is unconditional love, everything else is an illussion. Connie motherhealth@gmail.com
Some of my friends think that my boyfriend is annoying because he talks a lot around people he doesn't know too well. And he tends to talk about controversial topics. But you know what? He treats me with the utmost respect and is good to me, and we compliment each other very well. Sometimes you don't need a friend to tell you whether or not someone is good for you, because they can't always tell.
If they don't like him because of his tattoos and because he's "weird" (way too vague) they are just being picky. Figure out how you feel about him and don't let your friends influence you because it's not about them. It could be that they are jealous because you have a boyfriend and maybe you are spending more time with him and less with them. Spread your time evenly to make everyone happy and ask them to do things as a group, then they can actually get to know him before they make a judgement on whether they like him or not.
Well, if you really like this guy and its worth giving up your friends then do it. But best friends are very hard to come by, and you can always find another guy (i doubt he's the one for you). If I were you I'd keep dating him and still talk to your friends on a daily basis.
Well it depends on how much your boyfriend means to you. Are you so committed to him that you're willing to lose your friends?

Your best friend probably has good reasons for not liking him though, if she wants the best for you, and you should talk to her about why she doesn't like him. If it's only because of the physical appearance, she may be just judging him, and perhaps you should get them acquainted with each other, so she can see what a great guy he is. There's nothing worse than your best friend and boyfriend hating each other.
Friends are usually good at seeing what you can't when you are in the "Love Sick" twitterpated twirls of a new relationship.

A relationship has two possible outcomes: Marriage, or break-up (usually w/broken heart). If your intention is marriage then you need to be with this man. If you are still in the "Dating" then the 'break-up' is still a possibility.

One thing you want to watch out for is if this man is creating drama to separate you from your friends. This pattern is a sign that he's an abuser. The flip side is that your friends may be jealous of you and creating the drama to sooth their jealousy. Again, this is a sign that your friends are abusers.
frinds were suppose to back u up no matter wat

maybe there jelious dat u got a bf dats kool some friends r like dat

there dat ur real friend if they dont like your bf
that’s good that they don’t like him because I had a boyfriend who my friend liked a lil to much if you know what I mean. so forget what they think if you want him and he is okay to you then don’t worry about your friends. good luck honey!!!!
I had the same dilemma! My friends thought my boyfriend was a loser. What you need to do is ask them why they don't like your boyfriend. When they give you the same excuses "He has those tattoo's and piercings" then just ask them "what if I got as many tattoos and piercings as he does. Would you still be my friend?" This should get them. If they say no then they aren't true blue friends. You need to make it clear to them that he is YOUR boyfriend, not theirs. And that it's effecting you so much that they don't like him. Good luck to you!

A friend is sort of throwing a party for me, but wants to invite her own friends. What would you do?

My friend has offered her place for my graduation party, I'm supplying food. She's been buying things and acquiring lawn furniture that she will keep afterwards. Now she wants to invite some of her friends (who I don't know) because she doesn't know anyone on the invite list. Why would I want strangers at my graduation party? To everyone invited it looks as though she's totally hosting the deal. Should I just suck it up and enjoy meeting new friends or should I say "No?" Or should I ask her to pitch in for the food? (Neither of us are overburdened with money right now.)

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Tell her a few friends are fine, but nothing over 5 because you're paying for the food. If they want to bring their own food that's fine but mention that her friends will reflect on you while your family is there. If they become too much of a bother you will have to ask them to leave. Asking her to help with the food isn't a bad idea. Tell her because you're on a budget that you only budgeted enough food for so many people.

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the more the merrier
Suck it up of course
Honey lives to short Chill and enjoy it
I think that it is ok for her to invite a FEW friends. But, if the number on her list exceeds your list, I might say something. It is YOUR party after-all.
I would politely and gently remind her that it IS your party, but still allow her to invite a few friends. But not many, because you are paying for the food. Maybe 5 or so, depending on how big your group is.
id probally ask for a little cash,suck up and enjoy it the best i could.
If her friends are going to be invited to, ask her to pitch in for the food. It's only fair.
They better be for bringing gifts, preferably CASH
Ok...you don't want strangers at your party but she's going to be surrounded by strangers. Maybe she wants to invite her friends so she wouldn't feel lonely or uncomfortable at the party. Its just like bringing a date to a party. If you are worried about her friends, maybe you can meet them before the graduation party.

Why would you ask her to pitch in for food if she is already buying other items and furniture? That doesn't seem right.
If she is being kind enough to let ou use her place and to spend some of her money on lawn furniture that she probably wouldn't have bought if it were not for you party, it should be ok for her to invite some of her friends if it would help make her more comfortable in her own home.

Just a few though, you don't want to end up having two seperate parties in one place at the same time.
I think that it would be interesting for you to be able to meet some new people,...Plus, I don't think she would invite people over that you would not like...if she's your friend....right??!
Share with her you don't want strangers and without some of her friends she would be with just strangers.She is putting the party on for you right? Maybe it's not to late to ask for help with the food cost.Wouldn't hurt to ask I guess.
It's your party.

If you think meeting her friends would be unpleasant, then yes, tell her to keep them away.

I really don't see what's wrong though . . .if you want, tell her to have her friends each bring something to eat or drink for everyone. That's very reasonable for parties these days!

Have fun!
Well it is your party and your friends are coming but it's her place I would stick it out if it is just one or two of her friends but if it's more like 10 say something about feeling uncomftorable around new people.
Your friend already knew that the people u invited,she didn't know,i would let her bring 1-2 friends to the party,but if she wants more of her friends there,i'd tell her she needs to chip in with buying the food.Its not fair that u have to buy food for her friends(which are unexpected guests). Plus,she offered her place,i think she had adding her friends to the party set in her mind when she offered her place.
This is a great way to meet new friends and have a super party - the more the merrier! Sure, ask your friend to throw in a little extra food. This is to celebrate a mile mark in life - what difference does it make who brings what? really - you both are contributing. Have fun!
let her invite some of her friends. If the list gets out of hand, you can ask her to help for the food.
So what if she invites a few friends. You just might like some of them. You dont refuse to party at a club just because strangers will be there. No, you party at clubs BECAUSE strangers will be there. Look forward to the new faces and enjoy your graduation. BTW, congrats.

Friends Of The Troops is an organization. Is it correct to say Friends Of The Troops is or are.?

Need an English teacher. Friends Of The Troops , Inc. is an organization. Would you say Friends Of the Troops is sending cookies, or Friends Of the Troops are sending cookies.

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I'm not an english teacher, but I can confidently say "is" is the word you are looking for.

This is because "Friends of the Troops" is a singlular noun: It's ONE organization.

If you were going to say more than one organization: The Girlscouts of America and Friends of the Troops ARE sending cookies.

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is
Friends would be the subject of the sentence. Even though one organization is sending the cookies. Grammatical the word "Friends" is the subject of the sentence.

So it should be:

Friends of the Troops are sending cookies.

Friends of the Library were having a book sale.

Boy Scouts of America are having a jamboree.

Friends of a author... need help!?

hey, i have started writing a new book. i want my friends to read it but i'm afriad they'd give me friend opinions. Like they really hate it but won't say the truth. so i told them its a book only online and i'd give it them when each chapter comes out. but, i think they are starting to catch on, do you have any ideas that will make them not think its really me writing the book.

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tell them that you found an interesting book on the internet and you think that they should read it.

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You can put it up on www.worthyofpublishing.com. It's completely free and is a great chance to get feedback that is not from family or friends. While you're there check out my book The City of Dawn http://www.worthyofpublishing.com/book.a...

OK me and friends all have a crush on the same guy?

He is like my brother but i still would like it if he cared about me and smiled at me once in awhile.... the only problem is he is the hottest guy at school and... well... all my friends have crushes on him!!! and he NEVER flirts with me... except for running around playing a random game of "tag" today... lol he started it, beating each other up, fooling around, and doing daring stuff that always ends up in injuries lol... but thats what friends do... its not like flirting though he teases me a lot cuz of my size but its brotherly teasing... by the way we are both in highschool... i dont want to be gf and bf but i kinda want him to think of me as a good looking girl instead of his friend who he rarely even notices IS a girl... honestly, i think i look pretty good for a 9th grader and i have some muscle on my arms and legs... i play sports... im pretty smart... but he flirts with all my friends... he doesnt notice that im a girl... we're just friends...

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Make him jealous. Become his best friend's gf.

How to Make 'Best' friends?

I have always been a friendly person, very slow to anger, don't hold a grudge, honest, clean...etc... im sporty and ive got good people skills... ive never had any trouble making a lot of friends but i have never been able to make the kind of friend that you call a "good friend"... the kind of person that you can tell everything to, who knows exactly how to cheer you up... and knows you well.

(i don't want to sound boastful i just want to give the reader the best insight)

how can i make 'best' friends?

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pick one or 2 people out of your current friends and start talking to them more often, open yourself up little by little about your life and hopefully they'll do the same

good luck mate

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i agree with the answerer above. try picking out a couple of your friends, and hang out with them a little more - just try not to be too pushy or persistent, they might get annoyed. gain their trust so you can open up more with them.

and, just a warning, try not to find one in your work place or school, if you're still in it. work/school friendships never really last, and go down in flames - look at most of the questions here and you'll understand where i'm coming from [also, from personal experience].

a good best friend is hard to come by. but, everyone finds one at one point in their life. i'm sure you'll find one. just don't give up.

hope i helped! :]

Arguing friends?

(we are all 13 by the way) i have a friend called Louise, she keeps falling out with our (and her) friends. she will probably never make up with Sarah, but now another fight has broken out with Laura. its the exact same to the other fight("shes ignoring me so im ignoring her" is what both sides say) and i really want to bang their heads together! i also have this thing where i HAVE to meddle. i cant help it! and i wondered what i should do. the three girls have VERY strong personalities, and i used to be like that until she fell out with ME, and a teacher tried to fix it, and all the blame was put on me. ever since then im very afraid of upsetting my friends. I know she can be mean but she is my best friend and i can't leave her.

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invite eachother both secretly over and then sit them down adn tell them how immature they are being. they need to realize that this Louise girl is acting stupid, basic stupidy. "blah blah, blah blha" chain reaction. this is how stupid thinks come from, when people do what hte toher does. tell her that you are tired and annoyed and that you want them to make up and explain so ways to deal with it. let it out, you have a LOT of stress- LET IT OUT, girl! TAKE A BREATH! you have a life, live it up- they are ruining it for you.

adn that weight about upsetting them, get over it. if they don't like your decisions then that's stupid. friends understand no matter what. they have that thing that they can tellepathically understand.

i say find more nice friends that understand and are willing to listen. but above is another resort

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Just talk to all of them. I know it will slide. Make onw of them start talking to all of them. I know that is hard, but also remind them that the holidays are coming up and maybe throw a little party. Hopefully you can get them to all get back together. Great that your helping but make sure you keep in mind that this is their battle not yours.

=)

My friends baby died, help me?

i say a friend i mean a friend of a friend,well she was 7 months pregnant and she had to deliver it dead, she was all ready for the baby to arrive, it happend a few days ago, but i only see her at friends partys maybe new year, i am so gutted for them i have been despressed since i found out i cannot begin to imagine what it is like being her right now, never seeing her 1st child smile laugh cry or walk, i cant stop crying and cant stop thinking about it,

can anyone help me get over this, like advice i cant seem to get out of bed and havent got dressed since,

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I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks, three days after my brother (my best friend) died as the result of a hit and run. Sometimes it sounds more horrible to someone else. I had my faith to help me through. I remember lying in bed in horrible pain (worse than the delivery of my full term 10 lb 6 oz daughter without drugs) crying and thinking over and over again "why me?". After about an hour, another thought popped into my head. "Why Not Me?" I believe that was Gods way of answering me. Could I think of any other person in the world, even someone I absolutely hated, that I would rather have this happen to? I couldn't. It happens to someone every day, and this time it was me. I know now that it happened for a reason. I have heard that all my life (everything happens for a reason). I always thought is was just soemthing people said when the didn't know what else to say. I was one of the lucky few who got to see why mine happened. My sister and I were both due on the same day. If I had still been pregnant when she went into Labor, I wouldn't have been there for her delivery. About one hour after delivery, she went to the restroom, and I stood outside the door in case she passed out. As I stood there, I noticed that she seemed to be peeing forever. A line from that movie Jerry Mguire came to me suddenly (the human bladder only holds 3 ounces), and I realized that that thing they give you to pee in is about 2 cups or 16 ounces! She was hemmoraghing. If I hand't been there, she would have bled to death. I could not have survived losing both my brother and my sister six months apart. God has his reasons for everything. I became pregnant six weeks after my miscarriage, and now she is three years old. My daughter is developmentally delayed, and I don't beleive I would have been able to deal with it as well as I have if I hadn't been shown first just how fortunate I am to have a child at all! I truly understand and appreciate the gifts that I have recieved. One thing that did help me through and may help her a little is a song I heard afterward. It is called "My Name" by an artist named George Canyon. He wrote it when one of his friends and neighbor lost their baby in a manner similar to what you have described. Now it is on my MP3 player, and I love to hear it. It makes me smile and think of my baby playing in heaven with my brother until I can do so myself.

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If that's how you feel, imagine how they must feel and what they are going through!
It is very sad, but evidently something was terribly wrong with the baby and it was prob better off, at least it is not fighting for life, hurting anymore!!! I am not trying to sound heartless, because i have had 2 miscarriages, but it happened for a reason and it will take a long time to get over!!!!
Ok so this person's problems have now become yours. You need to get up out of bed and look around and see that you have much to be thankful for. If you feel bad for this friend call her up and invite her to lunch. There isnt anything you can say to help when it comes to the baby but you can just treat her the same as before and be there for her if she needs to talk.
This is my biggest fear- No words you have will help those parents- They have a funeral for a baby rather than a welcome home celebration. I understand how you are feeling. There is a book called "Ill hold you in heaven" You may even want to think about getting it for them and leaving it on there door step. Keep your head up hun. just pray for them. They are hurting so much
I honestly think that the only way to get over such a problem (one that can't be fixed) is to realize what you still have and what it means to you. It might take awhile but I think it will help.
Maybe it would make you feel better if you got in touch with the woman who actually had the baby. Dont let her know that you are totally bumbed, but tell her you have been thinking about her and hope she's well and ask if there is anything you can do for her. She is hurting too, but she may have a good way of dealing with it. So see if you can be aorund her and help her out. But do not mention how effected you are, that could make her feel worse.

Good Lucka nd Big Hugs frm NC!
The best way for you to get passed this is do something nice for her..even if its a card,a poem,flower, a locket,etc and send it to her in the mail or through a friend and say i dont know you very well but i feel your pain for your loss and this is my only way i know how to express this ....something like that...giving is the best way to feel good about yourself
all i can tell you is pray, my wife and i lost two babies early on in our marriage...one was misscarried at 6 months and the other passed away at four weeks old of sids....we are bot h christians and the only thing that got us through this terrible time was god....nothing anybody says or does can take away the pain of loosing a child be ot your first or fifth so all you can do is go on day to day knowing that god has a plan for you and something you have to do later on...in our case fourteen years later after we had given up the hope of children in our lives we had twins ..boy and girl...they are now 4 years old and healthy and happy kids. we just figured that we have been given back the two we lost earlier and that the reason we lost them was at that point in time we were not ready to have them as we are now.... so please stop grieving give god a chance and know that everything happens for a reason...is it better to have a child pass before birth or live with the possibility of being brain damaged or some other birth defect??? well that why babies usually do live...there is an underlying cause for the death...only god knows honey...only god...
Hearing about someone elses losses or grief can be difficult for anyone and even remind you of your own losses. If you have a history (or family history) of depression go seek professional help but otherwise call a friend or loved one and don't be alone. Someone else can help you move on and keep your mind off of the other womans sad situation. Also maybe talk with your friend who's friend it was and see if you can do anything to help her. Good luck and staying in bed will just make it harder.
%26gt; "can anyone help me get over this, like advice i cant seem to get out of bed and havent got dressed since,"

I think you need to get some counseling. If you are so paralyzed that you can't get out of bed or get dressed and leave the house, you have some other issue(s). This goes way beyond empathy for a friend of a friend's situation (even this). This triggered something else (whether you're aware or unaware), you need some help.
I think I know where you are coming from. Sometimes you hear about something dreadful happening to someone and you take it all to heart as if that person was close to you. It means you have a heart, you have compassion, and I think you are a lovely sensitive person. As you get older you will learn to accept life's tragedies a little better because you will be exposed to so much. Sometimes bad things happen to good people.

Questions about friends on Facebook?

I am on Facebook, and am wanting to actually add friends to my Facebook account. The problem is that I am not actually friends with anyone that would be on Facebook. I would like to add some friends though to help unlock the functionality of Facebook. There are some people online that I did go to school with, but they were more acquaintances than friends.

I am nervous as to how to approach someone to add them to my friends list. What do I say? What if they do not remember me or know me very well?

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think positive!

ppl can actually make school friends online.

so add them %26amp; have a chat.

what can possibly happen, you won't die or anything.

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just be sure to explain your situation...don't assume that they're randomly going to remember you if you talked to them once. bring up the similarities you have, any memories you have of them (positive ones are usually better unless you can make a negative one funny (be careful)). i'm sure they'd want to be friends with you as well since people on facebook generally have over 150 friends...they don't mind adding another one :)
When you request to be friends with them send them a message telling them who you are and where you know them from and just say you wanted to see what they had been up to since the last time you spoke. Most people on facebook aren't friends in "real life". Most people are friends that they went to middle or elementary school with. So, no need to be nervous. Hope this helps.

Friends advice?

i know im not the prettiest girl.but most of my friends are and almost all of them have boyfriends or ppl who like them.i LOVE all of my friends but i somtimes get jelous watching them and there boyfriends.i have also never had a 1st kiss.no matter how hard i try i am ALWAYS the guys that i like friends.all my other friends if they like someone then they usually go out with them in the next week or so.i know i will probly nvr b as pretty as they are. but can u give me some advice to not get jelous and maybe have more confidence. also how to let a guy know i like him w/out me telling him. please and thank you!!!

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well first off beauty is NOT the most important thing... there is something absolutely awful about everyone and there are many things absolutely amazing about everyone... these guys you likeee... well i always have my best friend go up to them and tell them i like them because i am also a little bit shy so try that either that or write them a note and tell them how you feel. and it sounds like to me that your beauty isnt whats getting in the way its your self confidence try to raise it a little... write a list about EVERYTHING good about your self and hide it under your matress every night before you go to bed read it... eventually you will gain more confidence... trust me.

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well...even though u might never be as pretty as them, ur very smart. You don't need a guy to feel complete.
Dont be jealous, it's not even worth it! Most guys just think it's cool to have a girlfriend so they just go otu with one they dont even really like them even. Just for show. If you want a boyfriend find a guy you like talk to him and be friends first then work your way up to a serious relationship. Focus on your life, not your friends.
omg thats like EXACTLY wat was happening to me---seriously, thats rly weird. anyway, my advice to u about the jealousy thing is that it's VERY hard not to be jealous of that type of thing so ur gonna have to find other ways to occupy urself. try not to think about ur friends being with their boyfriends. try to be happy for them instead, and the only way ull ever get over ur jealousy is to be happy. so i think that u shud try andget urself a boyfriend...if u feel ready. im sure u dont feel confident in urself right now and thats another thing u need right now to get thru this is confidence. do soemthing that makes u feel good about urself. do u like...going to the beach? writing? anything to boost ur self esteem? maybe think about the things u like about urself---or go shopping..a hair cut? anyway, once u feel better about urself u wont feel as jealous and once uv picked out a luky guy just flirt around with him and try to make it obiouv that u like him w/o throwing urself at him. if he gets it and he liked u back he'll let u no. i hope all goes well. good luck!!!!!!!

im sure u r beautiful! try not to compare urself to ur friends...i know its hard...
Dont worry about it! Maybe your pretty friends are getting too much attention from guys who are only interested in well, let's say not their personality. maybe when you get a boyf it will be because he likes you for you and not just your looks. also, dont judge yourself too harshly. jealously is hard, i bet your friends are jealous of something you've got that they dont. have a think about it and flaunt it! Good luck. Also, never been kissed? Neither have I, trust me, it's no big deal.
I posted a similar situation as yours. We have the same problem. But I say if your confident, look your best and be just yourself, things will go good for you. Good luck and Don't be jealous please.

What to do if friends Call u Annoying?

ok so my friend said she can't go to my party and i asked her why and she said she got grounded and then i just felt like something was wrong with her a few days later 9over myspace) i ask her is anything wrong and she didn't answer and later one of my friends emails me over myspace and says people keep say ur annoying and im all like gee...thanks for the info and she says your welcome and i was gonna tell her that i don't care what people think of me...and a little later my other friend writes back and says ur F****** annoying leave me ALONE and i said ok and then i realized she took me off her myspace friends list and so did my other friend and my first friend didn't even give me a chance to say that im SORRY and i want to still be Friends....so come monday when i see her at school what should i do or say?

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I think you said it best: don't care what they think or say. Maybe they are playing a game with you and conspiring to say that you are annoying just to get a reaction out of you or maybe they are not. In any case, just act yourself on Monday and concentrate on school/studies and the normal activities instead of looking and starring at your friends. I am pretty sure once you start ignoring them and not talking to them, they will come back. They always do! Hope this helps.

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annoy them more
give her her space. dont say anything yet. if you try to fix things after "you annoyed" her, shell just end up thinking your more annoying.
So what if your annoying.. your just being you..
tell her "suck my di*k while im pissing"
See what she does if nothing tell her that's really nice go do what everyone is doing, but if you really did something so annoying that she doens't want to be your friend so then i guess dtop bieng annoing and find new friends.
What a *****! She is totally not a true friend...neither one of them are! Friends are loyal, show respect, and are honest! I wouldn't say anything in fact....I wouldn't even give them the time of day! If they say something to you ignore them. Don't put up with there bullshit though! Good luck....also tell um they're fake!
really if you send like none stop message to your friend myspace is soooo annoy i swear to you if you consider your friendship it important delete your myspace my friend did to me i sooo mad and to my other friend but my make a lie saying that his cousin was using myspace it wasn't him, but i prefer you not saying that, when going to school tell your friend that you are sorry for what you did or sometime lie is good. And second thing my friends delete myspace all them because it will destory your friendship faster. Just hang out with your friends i did my friendship now it very strong with all my friend even with my friend who is annoy. Hope this help bye!!=)=)

Guy friends like me! What do I do?!?!?

Ok, so I have like 3 or 4 different guys who are all my good friends and they all have crushes on me! I really like them as friends but nothing more. I'm really scared that since I can't reciprocate their feelings they will get hurt.

I really like them as friends and I'm scared that if I some how do start to like one of them the others will get hurt.

What can I do? They're my friends but they like me.

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relax and don't worry about what might happen and what you cannot control. just focus on what you can control. stay good friends with them and let them know that is all there is so you are not leading them on. communicate with them and enjoy your time, but periodically drop a hint like "i'm so glad i have a friend like you" good luck to you.

My BEST friends called me a slut.. please answer. i'm posting this for the 3rd time and i apolo

I had a fight with my friend(s) (read my last question).

And when I confronted my friend and told them about my feelings, she didn't say anything to me.

But today, she gets 2 of her other friends to back her up and all three of them just attacked me on Instant Messaging.

It doesn't bother me that they called me names. But there was one thing in particular that bothered me so much that I started to cry.

My very own friends, they called me a sl*t just because I had sex with my boyfriend.

And when I told them that having sex with my boyfriend doesn't make me a sl*t, they said "well you are a sl*t. face it, because its the truth. why are you running away from it?" Those words HURT me so much!

Basically, this is the secret that I told my so called best friend. And She went and told the others. They said I'm a sl*t because I left my boyfriend AFTER having sex with him and sex was all I wanted. But the only reason I left him was because sex was all HE wanted.

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I hope you realize anyone who would treat you this way is NOT a friend. Go look the word friend up. These girls have a real problem. They are attacking you over something that had nothing at all to do with them.

You got smart about your boyfriend using you, now you need to wise up about the kind of people you call a friend.

Look around and find some nice people to be friends with, people who have compassion, understanding and care about others.

Friends or more than friends?

okay so following from my last question... so my "friend" wrote the guy i like a note without my permission and she wouldn't tell me what she wrote in it... all she would say is its about me... anywho... today (a few days later) i wrote the guy i like a note asking what she put in that note... and that i knew there was something about me in it... so he came up to me today and told me what she put... there was an awkward silence where i thought that was it but then he said and she also asked him if he liked me because i like him... and then we just stared at each other for like five seconds... then he walked away! now where talking (we werent really talking those days because idk!) but yeah so my question is... do you think he likes me or just friends... were already friends and flirt and etc. etc. etc. but do you think he likes me like i like him? are we both just shy?im pretty sure he likes me but i still got that little doubt...

Friends or more than friends?bad girls club

Friends...could possibly be more over time

Good luck!:)

My BEST friends called me a slut.. please answer. i'm posting this for the 3rd time and i apolo

I had a fight with my friend(s) (read my last question).

And when I confronted my friend and told them about my feelings, she didn't say anything to me.

But today, she gets 2 of her other friends to back her up and all three of them just attacked me on Instant Messaging.

It doesn't bother me that they called me names. But there was one thing in particular that bothered me so much that I started to cry.

My very own friends, they called me a sl*t just because I had sex with my boyfriend.

And when I told them that having sex with my boyfriend doesn't make me a sl*t, they said "well you are a sl*t. face it, because its the truth. why are you running away from it?" Those words HURT me so much!

Basically, this is the secret that I told my so called best friend. And She went and told the others. They said I'm a sl*t because I left my boyfriend AFTER having sex with him and sex was all I wanted. But the only reason I left him was because sex was all HE wanted.

My BEST friends called me a slut.. please answer. i'm posting this for the 3rd time and i apolozise?top 10 myspace

I hope you realize anyone who would treat you this way is NOT a friend. Go look the word friend up. These girls have a real problem. They are attacking you over something that had nothing at all to do with them.

You got smart about your boyfriend using you, now you need to wise up about the kind of people you call a friend.

Look around and find some nice people to be friends with, people who have compassion, understanding and care about others.

My friends boyfriend cheating on her....with me?

So my friends boyfriend is also one of my best friends. So he lately has been like way too close to me...if you know what i mean. Some people at my high school have been asking me if me and him are going out now. One of my other friends even asked me if we are going out behind my friends back. I like him...but I definiately won't do anything since they are going out.

Please help.

I need advice

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Super, that's coo.

Dude it's not like they're married.

Tell him to break up w/ her if he likes you and not her, and if you are sure you like him. Then wait 4 months and get together!

Though he might do to you the exact same thing.....Are you sure you want that?

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Tell him to back off, you're not interested in betraying your friend like that. It's that simple, really.
Tell your friend that she has a cheater for a boyfriend, tell her to dump him, keep being friends with her, and never speak of him again.
Mates before dates. 'Nuf said.

Best Friends Girlfriend? I Hugged Her?

ok so i was hanging out with my best friend at his g/f at her house. we were on the trampoline with a couple other kids. they all went home eventually and my and my best friend were leaving. he gave his g/f and hug nd a kiss and said goodbye. as the lil joker i am, i said wheres my hug to his g/f as i was just kidding around. she put her arms out and i gave her a hug. did she mean this as a friendly hug or is something stirring up? i felt really really weird hugging my best friends g/f in front of my best friend

should i feel wierd??

plz help

thanx alot

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friendly hug... I don't think you'd want it to be anything more than that...

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Haha, it was just a friendly hug.

Trust me. I did it so many times.

Guys are like. "dude, what the heck! where's my hug?!"

yeah.. weird.

I love my friends...?

This year is my last year at school.I SIMPLY LOVE MY FRIENDS.I have many friends at school. though i am a girl , i have friends who are boys and who are really really sweet [they are nothing more than friends !].THERE are 3 girls and 8 guys in our group. we have been ausumn friends from the past 2 years. BUT there are many girls ,[ who are the dumbest creatures in the whole world.] who have always mistook our friendship with the guys. The fact is that all our claass guys hate those girls. so they are jealous.

WHAT SO U THINK, SHOULD I REDUCE MY CLOSENESS WITH MY DEAR FRIENDS WHO ARE GUYS ?????????

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Why? you don't need to.

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Are you crazy, no you shouls noot reduce your closeness with your guy friends, I mean if you are only friends there should be no problem, anyway who cares what other people say, they will always talk and they just show that they are jealous. Keep your friendship with these guys because when you graduate you may not even bump into these people anymore and remember that your friends are always there for you and always will.

TRUST? Friends?

How far can you trust a friend, I always love the quote

" I don't trust him , we're friends"

" Friends are just enemies that don't have the guts to kill you"

Do you trust your friends and for how far?

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The key word is balance.

A friend is to be trusted, but there is always a limit.

The definition of a friend is a person who cares for you, likes you and does not harm you. For that a friend can be trusted.

BUT one should be careful of 2 things:

1- Maybe that person is not a real friend as assumed. It can be only our imagination.

2- There can be trouble one day that makes the friend of today an enemy of tomorrow.

The result is to be sure of the friendship and to keep top secret issues to yourself, in other words BALANCE.

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the friend of today may become an enemy tomorrow .

so, i dont share my personal secrets with anyone .

i share minor matters with my friends , and dont expect them to tell me more than what im ready to say .

im a careful person , and i want to remain like that so as not to regret it .
Sorry Mohamed, but with that attitude, that friends are enemies, you are just wasting yr life being scared to have a really beautiful relationship that will only become better with time.

As the saying goes, it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

Try to have more faith in people and cherish every moment with yr true friends. They make life better.
my friends are my friends till they prove they don't

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Will I `ve learned this lesson don`t intrust any one espesially your friend ....
i got a problem; i just can' trust anyone-- including friends.

by the way, i like those quotes
it's good to have someone you can tell your secrets. but remember, secret is between 2 people, if it's 3 it's not a secret anymore. i honestly don't trust 100% but i take a risk, to have some mental comfort of sharing my problems and worries. i trust 2 people, and unfortunately they are in different countries.

but i agree with your statement.
mm... well friends are good to talk to and about situations.. but sometimes they can make you do some bad things it all depends who your friends are.. my trust in my friend is about

50-70% shes a very goood friends but sometimes... i just cant take it anymoreee.

Best Friends Girlfriend? I Hugged Her?

ok so i was hanging out with my best friend at his g/f at her house. we were on the trampoline with a couple other kids. they all went home eventually and my and my best friend were leaving. he gave his g/f and hug nd a kiss and said goodbye. as the lil joker i am, i said wheres my hug to his g/f as i was just kidding around. she put her arms out and i gave her a hug. did she mean this as a friendly hug or is something stirring up? i felt really really weird hugging my best friends g/f in front of my best friend

should i feel wierd??

plz help

thanx alot

Best Friends Girlfriend? I Hugged Her?premade myspace

friendly hug... I don't think you'd want it to be anything more than that...

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Haha, it was just a friendly hug.

Trust me. I did it so many times.

Guys are like. "dude, what the heck! where's my hug?!"

yeah.. weird.

More than friends or just very good friends?!?

Ok. So there is this guy that i've been friends for like a year. We have a mutual friend relationship. we talk alot and get along pretty well. We arent really physical [like hugging and stuff] because he's actually a pretty quiete guy. We only hang out at school and in one certain class. Outside of class we dont really talk. He has his group of friends and I have mine. One day i was walking down the hall and he came up to me and put his arm around me [my shoulders] and he asked me how my x-mas vacation was. This took me off guard, since we didnt have that close of a relationshipbut I didnt object . The next day he didnt really talk to me. But then two days later i was upset and he put his arm around me again. What is happening?

I hear he has a gf though, but im not sure, im afraid to ask him.

Does he like me or is he just comfortable enough to put his arm around me as a friend?

*oh and i've had a crush on him so is this my paranoia?

More than friends or just very good friends?!?coolest myspace

.He's behaving quite normally.By his most recent conduct,he's letting you know he's around.Find a way to check on his availability(no gf)and let him know your interested

Im losing all my friends and maybe my Family HELP?

I met this guy (pretty nice guy) he is a friend of a goof friend mine, i donno how they met but oh well.. We start dating and i have to admit that he is a nice guy to go out with, funny also. but now is the dark side.. he comes from a family that i dont like at all. they live in a middleclass neiborhood and i just think I dont fit in that kind of live.. My mom has always told us not to have contact with ppl that doesnt have the same of highier income that we do because they are ignorants.

My friends also have been telling me to stop dating him because they re not going to be my friends anymore :( because im getting "dirty".

My mom just asking me to bring my "special" friend home to a dinner, (they want to meet him), but im afraid when she find out about he and his family how she is going to react.

Anyways at school my friends all the time make fun of me, and say that I need to improve my skills like a Maid.. :(

WHAT IM GOING TO DO..

Im losing all my friends and maybe my Family HELP?myspace cursors

An hour ago you had a husband according to your other question. If you want to know what to do you should commit yourself to a mental institution til you figure out who you are.

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so if u like him them just talk to him
if you love him it shouldn't matter what they think also your friends and family seem very low on the scale of reality and should take there heads out of their asses and realize everyone is the same
I hope HE dumps your sorry @ss! you sound like a biyatch to me. Are you serious you can't date him because he doesn't "have the same or higher income"? what a b**ch! get a life, one that doesn't revolve around money. because the best things in life can't be bought!

hold the phone, i just read you're other questions. In one of them you are poor in another you are married to a man that wants you to have sex with animals. quit trolling.

btw, i retract my comment previously.
Sounds like your whole group of

family and friends are stuck up snobs!!
if others controll you like this then you need to stop seeing him %26amp; join the convent !!
Hey there, I couldn't help but find your question. I have a good answer for you, and I promise that everything I'm going to say is true.

People are people, and their class has nothing to do with who they are...except that if they're below the upper-class, they're more likely to realize that the world doesn't owe them anything and to not look down on their help. Your friends don't sound like friends to me, they sound like what I'd call "pricks" because they're insulting you for seeing that not having money doesn't automatically make anyone horrible. Worth as a human being isn't about money AT ALL, it's about who you are as a person. If you're kind and considerate, and if you realize that just because you were born in YOUR shoes that you're not better than anyone else, then you're a worthwhile human being. It takes both intelligence and common sense to truly be worth anything in this world.

Again, people are people. There are some people out there who are worth your time and some people who don't see the value of knowledge, the value of being a good person, the value of helping others so we don't all end up in a ditch. (If no one helped anyone, you wouldn't know even half of the things you know.) If this guy actually bothers to learn something and be kind to people, then he's not an "ignorant" and is worth your time. If no one else can see that, forget them, and go ahead and do what you feel is right. Maybe you can show them that there's more to life than money if you ever find another low-class guy that you like.

If you decide to go out with him even though you said you wouldn't, you'll always have that goofy friend to hang out with. He's friends with her too, right? %26lt;3

Please remember that you'll never be worthless because you don't have money, and that no one else is either.

I dont have any friends... is that normal?

We moved here three months ago, I have 'friends' but they are like artificial friends or something. I see them at specified times two or three times a week. I recently had a miscarriage and at the time there was one person I was able to call and cry on but she is moving away in 2 weeks so she wont be here anymore either. What am I going to do without a good friend? They are all much better friends with each other, I know it is because I am new, but I am having trouble connecting on a deeper level. We moved 1200 kms away from our families and all of our friends for my husbands job and I am soooooo sad about it right now. Also this town is so isolated, no shops or anything and super-boring. I kind of just wish I could go to sleep and never wake up. How do I get a close friend or two when everybody is already has their own little groups?

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I understand how you feel, I recently moved to a new and small town myself. It is hard making new friends and I bounced around from friend group to friend group for about two years having multiple best friends in the process. Just put yourself out there, meet new people, dont stress out about it you"ll make friends it just takes a while.

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You know what? You need to find a support group for women who have had miscarriages. I am sure there are some out there someplace. Perhaps you can look online in your local area, or call a medical hotline or help line. You most likely will find others who share your problems and have ways to deal with what you are going through. You may make some true friends there. Please call someone about this, even if it is your doctor.
Go to places that interest you

chances are, there will be other people you can connect with

that share the same interests.
well, i understand ur situation.....its hard to make a friend when u are newly in ur hometown....Try to get along with ur neighbours or co-workers. Maybe it would help...I hope so

Good Luck

More than friends??

I've become pretty good friends with this guy at school this year. We hang out in the same circle of friends, make each other laugh all the time, talk about everything, etc. Everything is going great so far.

Now, I like him. And since he's really REALLY shy around girls that he likes, I can't tell if he likes me as more than a friend. He's talked about this particular girl that he is interested in occasionally and asked my advice once or twice. But she's a year older than us and he's never even spoken to her...

I've seen him staring at me sometimes out of the corner of my eye, he's complimented me once or twice, and there have been times, when I was wearing a particular outfit or whatever, when it felt like he couldn't take his eyes off me.

I also had someone very close to me die recently and he really was there for me when I needed someone.

But since he's so shy and since things are going so well friend-wise, I don't know if he wants to be friends or more than that. Help!

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Confront him .

Its not worth your time if he won't give you his .

At the same time , don't let something good pass you by .

Good luck (:

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go for it. From a guys perspective, having the girl initiate something to a shy guy is the best.

My friends really hate my boy friend..and are nagging me to dump him what should i do?

i have a boy friend...and he likes me aton...but at times he gets annoying and follows me w/ my friends...sometimes i have to have time away from him....and my friends hate when he comes along...but he just follow me whenever i go some where..my mom likes him...and i do at times....but i feel so bad when i break up w/boys...and he is never going to dump me...what should i do?

My friends really hate my boy friend..and are nagging me to dump him what should i do?div myspace

just follow your heart - but dont break up with him just because your friends dont like him.

If you like him, keep him-

he sounds really sweet

Friends or not...you decide..please help..?

i have this problem where no matter how bad i feel no1 seems to care. im not selfish and i always put other peoples needs first. whenever my friends need me im there...but it seems to be whenever i really need someone they arn't there. theres one friend who im surprised she doesn't seem more understanding. shes not a bad friend but i wish she would like pay attention more. it gets me mad. also she got mad at me about something that wasn't even my fault. i asked for her to come with me somewhere and it was a big deal to me and she knew it. she didn't care enough to try and find anyway possible to get off from work so she missed out. then got mad at me when i got back. the whole situation is bigger then i explained but its hard to explain it on this. im just im soo confused...i just needed to post this and get it off my chest. anyone in the same position or have you ever been? what should i do? maybe i imagined her up before really knowing her. i thought she was the best friend type...

Friends or not...you decide..please help..?emo myspace

SO maybe you tought wrong. Ive had that situation b4 it was stressfull to see dat the people dat i awlays be there for ignore me. I confronted my friend dat i felt left out. that im alwys there for them but theyre not for me. But dey understood they told me they didnt kno they were doin it on purpose and so forth i havent felt that way.

just do wat i did. if it helps then shes worth a friend. but if she says lik well o or gives dumb excuses then you kno if shes a real friend or not.

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I can relate to this. I had a best friend who did similar things to me but my advice to you is just to let it go. One day when you get older and you both go your seperate ways you'll end up missing them and there's not really much you can do.

I dont have any friends... is that normal?

We moved here three months ago, I have 'friends' but they are like artificial friends or something. I see them at specified times two or three times a week. I recently had a miscarriage and at the time there was one person I was able to call and cry on but she is moving away in 2 weeks so she wont be here anymore either. What am I going to do without a good friend? They are all much better friends with each other, I know it is because I am new, but I am having trouble connecting on a deeper level. We moved 1200 kms away from our families and all of our friends for my husbands job and I am soooooo sad about it right now. Also this town is so isolated, no shops or anything and super-boring. I kind of just wish I could go to sleep and never wake up. How do I get a close friend or two when everybody is already has their own little groups?

I dont have any friends... is that normal?coolest myspace

I understand how you feel, I recently moved to a new and small town myself. It is hard making new friends and I bounced around from friend group to friend group for about two years having multiple best friends in the process. Just put yourself out there, meet new people, dont stress out about it you"ll make friends it just takes a while.

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You know what? You need to find a support group for women who have had miscarriages. I am sure there are some out there someplace. Perhaps you can look online in your local area, or call a medical hotline or help line. You most likely will find others who share your problems and have ways to deal with what you are going through. You may make some true friends there. Please call someone about this, even if it is your doctor.
Go to places that interest you

chances are, there will be other people you can connect with

that share the same interests.
well, i understand ur situation.....its hard to make a friend when u are newly in ur hometown....Try to get along with ur neighbours or co-workers. Maybe it would help...I hope so

Good Luck

What does it mean when guys friends do this :?

There's this guy who I've liked and I think he's liked me aswell (because of certain signals) for about a year now. We are both shy. I asked him out just before some important exams and he said he didn’t know and then 2 days later he said not now but maybe after them. Basically I ignored him and my friends said that he showed signs of liking me again like being where I was all the time and looking and stuff. Some things his friends have done:

1. One day I was walking outta school and his friends were like saying his name and then were like shouting to me ‘come back�?and telling him ‘she’s going�? I looked back and I just saw him looking in my direction.Then some days he would look and others not and then one day his friend said ike that I was 'stalking' him and stuff (which I obviously wasn't but maybe they just don’t like me who knows?? )

2. The other day I walked past him and his friends……I thaught they said �?Isn’t that the girl that fancies �?and then his name but my friend said that they said ‘Isn’t that the girl you like �?and then his name and then they were saying like ‘are you single?) and they like pushed him. My friend said it sounded like they were mocking him…�?

I think his friend threw a sweet towards my table but it didn't hit me.

We're 16 and 17 : )

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i have had alot of boy issues over time, trust me, they are complicated. he might think that you going out with him would ruin your friendship, or maybe he isn't ready for a serious relationship. the best thing to do would be to talk to someone who's close to him, and have their say.

hope i helped!

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hes probly telling his ffiends things so they are being immature and trying to embarras him infront of u. just go up and talk to him like a normal person. hes probably shy to make a move so you gotta be that one...do it when his ffriends arent around though
he likes you.

his friends are proberly just stiring him or trying to bring you to together by letting everyone know about it.

hang in there. if you get the chance, just talk to him, tel lhim how you feel, tell him that you like him and ask whats up with your friends.

see what he says.

make conversation. just take everyday as it comes, im sure his friends will get board of teasing you both eventually. just talk to the guy you like, what have you got to loose?

I need friends.?

I was always alone, or a tag-a-long. I hated them both. This year [senior] I made a good friend, who I could tell anything to and we were close. This took course in about 2-3 months. Now the year is half done, and my friend had to move a hour away. We are still friends but I will rarely get to see her, but we are still good friends on the phone. Now I feel alone and a tag-a-long again at school...its only been two days without her =[ I want to know what to do to be friends with people and not be a tag-a-long.

thanks.

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As with everything in life, experience is key to knowledge. What I'm trying to say is: you have to get used to being something before you can be good at being something. Don't expect to be a social butterfly all at once. Try to imagine that you have very poor social skills and that you are determined to have the best social skills; and in order to do this you must throw yourself to the lions, so to speak.

A woman once told me: "I have to believe that every person I meet is a saint before I meet them, or else I'll judge and never want to meet them." This is important because everyone deserves an equal chance at being your friend and you deserve an equal chance from everyone else as well. So disregard everyones flaws and only write some one off if they give you good reason to.

Once you have become social (even to a small extent), you will begin to see where real friendships have started. Real friends can accept knowing how and when they are wrong and return the favor to you.

To begin being social talk about things you believe in, exception of religion and politics, these are considered to be rude topics because of how easy it is to accidently offend some one. To spot good friends take notice of who likes to hear you talk. They will actively listen to you by asking questions and seem interested as well as willing to share. When speaking it is easy to forget what you are doing so be conscientious. There are three things to remember when you are talking:

1. Make eye contact

2. Speak up (boldly and confidently)

3. Stop talking (allow some one else a turn)

-When uncertain of when to stop speaking allow 2-3 second breaks regularly between your thoughts.

All three are important, but eye contact is key because it builds your self confidence and it helps you to sound confident and genuine. Frankly, if you aren't looking into a person's eyes when they are speaking to, you wont really connect with them. If you are afraid of looking into other peoples eyes they may be less friendly too you. However, it is hard to work on eye contact, so just keep that in mind and be persistent at making eye contact, no matter how hard. It will pay off, and you will learn many new things about yourself and others.

Do not be afraid of sounding weird or crazy, anyone who would label you is not deserving of your friendship. We all can easily talk about ourselves but try not to unless you are asked to. To avoid talking about yourself ask questions about the other person. This is another hard task, and sometimes it is awkward, just don't let yourself give up because of awkward or nervous situations. Your anxiety can't hold you captive; if you stand up to it you will defeat it and soon find that talking with people comes naturally. Meeting people will always be awkward at some point but make it your goal not to be afraid of this anymore.

Good luck. I hope this wasn't too much information.

**By the way, being a tag a long is where it all starts ;)

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talk to some people and start hanging out with them if you like them
"I get by with a little help from my friends"

got across the universe stuck on my mind
Um. If you need a good friend go buy a teddy bear, it's the best friend anyone can get or a pet. I always talk to my teddy bear.
why not be just friendly with everyone .

joing group games / activity

smile a lot and u will notice the diffrence.
be funny and optimistic. you'll be friend everyone. also it helps if your attractive as superficial as that sounds, im sorry. society will always benefit you if your pretty so ummmm try to fix a physical flaw u have for the better and pretty it up
Open up to people=]

Don't be afraid to just get to know everyone. If you do then you'll have lots of friends. And won't be a tag-a-long. But make sure to be yourself!!
do u want advice on how 2 make a friend or do you want yahoo frinds ill b frinds with u if u want
join organizations and be very outgoing!!! many people will like you more (because majority of people are fun and crazy) and if you get in things you like, there will be people who like the same things as you!! just talk and let everyone who you are.
hey jus be how you were with your friend that moved away sounds like you 2 were close but remember when you frist met her try find sumone like her
Just start conversations with people in your class. The only way to get noticed or get to know people is by talking to them. Dont be shy. Everything will be ok! :)
u have to been friendly with everythinh one and just talk to ppl
Awww...the best way to acquire friends is to act as if you simply do not need them until you feel that they are your true friend. And go to clubs, so you'll meet friends that share the same interests as you. Friends aren't that hard...oh, and NEVER be someone's tag along, okay?

I'll be your friend if you want...:D
OMG, i feel tha same way you do...like am always in the back ground, "tagging along" and i hate it!!! i need some advise too =)
sorry to here that about your friend you will find another to tag along with i am sure , of it
be more social go to church or mosques as your religion take part in any club visit your friends and family in all ocuations you will have more friends
Try talking to people, get to know them, if you seem keen to want to get to know a person, I am sure they will be keen to know you too!! Or maybe there are other people in your school who are tag-a-longs or don't have friends at the school, maybe you should try getting to know them!! I'm sorry about your friend moving away, I have moved interstate and everything and left a lot of really close friends behind, but I managed to find new friends, it took a while, but now I have some of the best friends you could ever wish for, it just takes time!!

Good luck!!!!
Be nice smaile at someone who looks like someone you would want to be friends with. Compliment them. Don't follow say something then if nobody's saying anything walk away. Don't be clingy by following them. Find someone else whos alone or only with a few people, its easier to get close to someone in a small group.

Good luck!!!!!!
we can be friends too what do you mean by a tag along two friends and then their is you or is it a big group of friends groups of friends are fun you have to have like a special bond between some ppl in the group too like there is me n like 4 or 5 other girls we get along great we click fine you should try finding some girls you have similar interests with
Look into after school programs, such as drama or FFA, something with your intrest, thats a really good way to meet people, and they always have trips and things, it can be really fun and no one gets left out couse its all done as a group. Or if there is a group of people that you want to hang out with, talk to them, there only human. Hope this helps...
Try looking inwards. Why do you think you feel needy?

Are you trying to fill a gap that was open and unfilled in your earlier years?

Try dealing with this sooner than later.

People could really take advantage of you when they know you are feel this way.

Get deep down and find the strengths in you and be a leader and you will start pulling friends to yourself.
be social....
I also had a very hard time in high school making friends. I was very shy and had self-esteem issues .. always thinking if I opened my mouth that something stupid would come out. My sisters were cheerleaders but I was the wallflower. I got into Journalism and enjoyed writing ... then I got onto the newspaper staff. My teacher realized how good I was at writing and she made me the Feature Editor of the paper. I ended up getting a small scholarship (enough for a couple of classes at a junior college) and I also won an award for an article that I wrote. That helped my self-esteem a lot! Through the Journalism class and the newspaper staff, I made friends that had the same interests that I did. Some people may say, Newspaper staff? What a geek! But, it did help me. You don't have to get into the newspaper or writing but my point is, get into a club or group, something that YOU are interested in ... not necessarily something that the people you want to hang out are interested in. It doesn't even have to be school related. Think about church or volunteer activities. If you are doing something you like, others will notice that you are an interesting person and want to be friends with you. You never know what will happen! Good luck to you!
umm!

u cld join sum clubs or start new activities!! (great way 2 meet ppl)

be more confident and start mixing wif different ppl!!

and an hour away isnt that far im sure use cld arrange 2 meet up!!!

good luck hope u make friends soon :)
Just be your self. Don't try to be something that your not. People will see you are an individual and like you for that. Be true to your self. The rest will come in time. If someone starts to talk to talk to you talk back but don't talk their ear off let them be the leader in the conversation.
Well sadly I am only 14 so I couldn't tell a senior such as yourself how to do that but I guess I will try. From what it sounds like...being a tag-along really is not your thing. You need a REAL good true friend who will always be there for you. My main tip is to just be yourself! Thats how I made all of my friends. Once I show confidence people look up to me more and don't treat me like a door mat. So be yourself and look for people who have stuff in common with u. I really hope this helps!
How about a hobby, sport, or school activities? Join a club, you can make friends by involving yourself in activities that other people share. How about church? Or involving yourself in a community service. Volunteer work in your community can put you in places that open up opportunites to create special friendships, even if they are not in your age range. (Nursing homes, hospitals, etc.) Do you have neighbors with young adults your age you can introduce yourself to and then invite them home (parent's permission) to hang out? Here are just a few ideas. You are a special person and people are out there waiting to meet you! Remember, the Lord is ALWAYS your friend, and will listen anytime and anywhere...

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I M IN GOOD PEOPLE LIST, U SHOULD MADE ME FRIEND . AND CHATT ME U FOUND !!!!!
i'll be your friend.. just don't act needy and stuff...

My friends changing school in Sept...help?

One of my closest christian friends in school is leaving to a really posh beauty school in September. I hang around with her and another girl all the time in school. The other girl i don't have that much in common with. She's a complete party animal, is all into fashion, and does abit of modelling. I get bored around her easy. All she talks about is nights out, drink, who she's seeing (diff every week).. apart from that she's nice enough, but I couldn't stick with her on my own all year, especially now that a different friend left a few months ago too. What would be best a year out to work full-time (i'm broke) and then go back to finish A2 levels..or stick at it...i'd be able to gain confidence and independence from workin and I might work harder when I go back..but I'll have to make new friends again, but the friend i'm talking about will be back.

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I think you should probably stick with school. You will have more money, yes, but once you leave something it's hard to go back. I took a year out of university because I was sick (long story) and worked, and then found it difficult to get back into the swing of things. Almost like my brain had forgotten how to study. And I didn't exactly budget very well for being a student again, either.

Anyway, it's only a year, so it will fly past. Try to initiate conversations with other people in your class. Sit beside someone different and it'll flow. You just need to give yourself a bit of a push and then you'll be fine, I promise!

Good luck with whatever you decide to do =]

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HOLY CRAP!! arnt u in a pickle! could u go to the beuty school ur friend is going to? if not could u make new friends at the school ur at now? if not just go full timejob

My Friends Parents Hate ME!?

Ok so my friend, ashley, left her purse at my house for about a week and when she got it back there was 5 dollers missing. I SWEAR TO GOD I DIDNT TAKE IT!!!! Her parents immediatly blamed me though! i beleve in that whole thing inocent until proven guilty and that is compleatly true they dont know that i took it they just said that it HAD to be me cause it happend at my house. Also, ashley has a thing about stealing my friends and her parents absolutly love my best friend deanna and i think they just want to get me out of the picture. Because deanna is Christin they absoluty know it wasnt her, i dont hate christines im catolic though and its just uhhhh!!! gosh ive none her for almost 10 years now and i have never stolen anything before so why are the blaming me!!!!!!! i have always been one of ashleys best friends i know her family very well and i love her to death and i really dont want to lose her, but shes starting to be a little caty now.

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was there a question on there or did you mistake this for your myspace page?

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Lose her, if she is accusing you of things then she doesnt think much of your friendship anyway. Find some real friends that trust and respect you.
well get some one else or say to her if u dont like me cause ur parents dont like me tell me so i can just go some where else but if she isnt or she just has something to talk about say whats wrong is it something about ur parents not likeing me or is it something in school hope it helps =]!!!!
oh poor thing same thing happen to me today too my friends mom thoght i took her bike
LMFAO this is the fourteenth funniest thing ive read in my life.
get new friends

keep your questions short
well just get ur five dollars and tell her i found them or do something else ok dont worry!!!!

My friends and i aren't close anymore?

i use to be close to my friends the group i hang out with. but after Nick had died away i started to drift apart from them. i dated him before he and i decided to stay friends because he fall in love with another friend of mine. i just don't know how to heal my heart. how do i get my friends back after i pushed them away?

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I think they might just waiting for you to get your head right. You should try to explain to them way you acted the way you did and apologies for the way you acted. If they are true friends they will understand but you have to make the first move.

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go talk to your friends tell them how you feel if they are true friends they will accept you and you work thing out with them from there
talk to them

How to make friends!!?

How can I make friends?! I have like just 5 friends, people think I'm wierd, but I'm just shy, I wanna know how can I make friends since 1 of my friends moved, and I don't know if she's ok..., and 2 of them are BIG perverts (they changed), so that leaves me with only 2 nice friends. HOW THE HECK CAN I MAKE FRIENDS???

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Wear your beliefs, like on your shirt or using a symbol. That may attract like-minded people who will want to get to know you better.

Another way, ask people what they believe and like to do for fun (not at the same time) when they are not busy doing something really complicated, or trying to party, etc.

Another way is to create a group meant to talk about certain things or do certain that people from your school or community may be interested in. For example, you can make a Bible Prophecy group, and state pick some verse or passage or subject to talk about that week after class or on a certain day during the week, or a group on a certain game like "Go" and have rewards for people who beat a certain number of players.

You can also offer to help students with certain subjects if you are good at one and have the time to, by posting a bulletin somewhere in your school if you have one. You can put some "junk" email that people can use to let you know they want your help in case you get some psychotic spammer.

Another way is to attend a church, especially a Bible study. There is always some Christian, at least in a large group, willing to talk to you. And if the teacher is good, you can compliment him for doing a good job.

If your town is a boring one, and there is a spot where people tend to hang out when they are bored, I would also go there to get to know them. There was one like that were I used to live.

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I think it's great that you have at least 2 friends to hang out with! Some people at my school don't have an friends and sit by themselves at lunch. It's pretty sad.

Anyways be yourself. Try to be a little more outgoing and talk to people in class. Say, "So, what are you doing today." or talk about something big that might be coming up in your school.

Just remember that you shouldn't change to just make people like you. Being yourself and showing your true colors will show some people that you are proud the way you are. =]
BE THE FRIEND TO OTHERS YOU WANT THEM TO BE TO YOU. WHY DO THEY THINK YOU ARE WIERD? IS IT THE WAY YOU PRESENT YOURSELF?

REMEMBER ONE OR TWO GOOD FRIENDS ARE BETTER THAN 20 FRIENDS THAT YOU ARE NOT REALLY CLOSE TO. I HAVE ONE BEST FRIEND FOR 20 YEARS NOW AND MY DAD AND I ARE BEST FRIENDS AND HANG OUT ALL THE TIME. I HAVE MY HUSBAND AND THAT IS ABOUT IT BUT YOU KNOW WHAT? I CAN COUNT ON EACH ONE OF THEM, ANYTIME, ANY PLACE FOR ANY REASON. NT MANY POEPLE CAN SAY THAT.
hey, i'm really glad u posted that question b/c i think i could really help u out. :) i used to be in the same situation the shyness and everything but then one day i thought to myself, "i can have as many friends as i want to have (we all have that choice) this isn't the best i can do. i want to change some for the good. i'm gonna let go of all this shyness lets face it everyone u go to school with are just like u except they all have different personalities. if u c someone in one of ur classes say hey i'm so and so whats ur name? just start from there maybe at lunch get to know the people that sit with. i mean ur gonna be there for a year why don't u make the best of it.oh and one more thing is maybe trying out for a sports team or after school activity or some club even outside of school that would also be a great place to meet someone knew!!! b/c it's still the beginning of the school year and u still have time to meet new people u just have to know how badly do u want friends so you'll know how much u want to come out of ur comfort zone. o yeah "the best way to get a friend is to be a friend!" hope this helps bi!!!
I have the same problem but I'm working on it. what you can do is get involved in some activities around school such as sports to meet other people, get to know the people that sit at your lunch table, find out what there doing on the weekends and get involved with them. I'm a little shy to so I understand, but just strike up a conversation with people and talk about anything that comes to mind.
One of the methods to make friends WITH PEOPLE ALL OVER THE WORLD is to join the WELCOMEPAL.COM project.

You find friends in other countries and travel for free:

http://www.welcomepal.com
To Michelle ..

What do you mean by:

Try to be a little more outgoing and talk to people in class. Say, "So, what are you doing today." ?

It's their personal business what they do, don't interfere with their personal lives!

No friends in college?

Is it possible to make friends as a college sophomore?

I'm a freshman right now and I don't have any friends. I have a few acquaintances but they aren't people I'd like to be close friends with.

I'm just worried that everyone will already have their groups next year and then there'll be no way for me to make friends.

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Just be yourself and be social.

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I would say try to take your acquanitinces to the next level. Talk more about personal things, try to meet up for lunch and slowly transition into friendships.
So many people attend college today , you will meet new people , just be friendly and sociable.
i feel like this when i go to church.
oh wow! i think a lot of people can related to this question, including your very own...

but to be honest, it's all about confidence and confident people always are attractive ...so be confident. heads up, chin up, but don't over do it.

yes you can...!!! just look approachable. how about smiling a bit?
Absolutely, my circle grew and morphed all throughout my college days, until senior year. Then we were pretty much set.

Top places I made friends in college:

The Dorm! Leave your door open, make your space nice and inviting, talk to strangers in the hall! invite people to a movie or whatever in your room.

The Quad: find someone doing something interesting. talk to them about it.

Dining Hall: Sit with ppl that look like the sort you'd want to be friends with. It's easier to sit with strangers in college than you think. just "mind if i join you?" "sure (or er, okay)" "I'm whateveryourname is, and I'm new here." always a good one.

Theater/Band/Etc: Easy as pie.

Martial arts: Fantastic place to meet people. When you're working with small groups, just keep the chatter up

Class: come on - it just takes a little effort to talk to that guy or girl next to you, and you've already got something in common, a loathing of the professor and a relative knowledge ont he subject. study groups also a great way to meet folks.

Don't give up hope, and just be outgoing. it helps to think "what would XYZ do?" where XYZ is a strong, confident, outspoken role model of yours, even if they're fictional!

If i was gonna back down from talking to someone who looked interesting, I'd say "what would spike do? (buffy)" then i'd get my swagger on, force myself to talk to them, and bam - i had a rich growing circle of friends!

and if that doesn't work...

THERE'S ALWAYS CHLOROFORM AND DUCT TAPE!

friends.... foreeeeverrrr........

You'll be fine, Good luck!
awww dont worry im sure youll be in a group in no time no matter what year your in. im still in high school so yeah i dont really know what to say but 2 just be yourself and people will start to be like wow whos she and youll fit in like that trust me it works for me im a very talkitive person and i will talk to anyone i mean just like today i just started talking to this senior about how it was is last year and i asked him what he was going to do in life and just said funny stuff .I wish you the best in your schooling and i hope u find good friends!
Try going to societies/clubs, such as a sport like badminton or christian union or whatever you're interested in, it would give you something to talk about. You could find a job on campus such as working in a cafe. Be brave, talk to people in your class, you'll never know what would happen unless you try! I'm sure they know it must be hard for you being new and remember be yourself! As there are freshman, they are all on the same boat! Don't feel as though you have to change to make people like you. It is scary but think postive! Maybe talk to someone who has also had the experience of being a freshman. True Blue said some good points also. Good luck :) God bless.

I kissed my friends boyfriend and i loved it. ):?

ok.. ive asked questions like this... but i kissed my est friends boyfriend. i dont know how it happend. it just did, and i know that i liked it. i feel awful. i havent talked to my friend or the guy scence then. I know this was the stuppidst thing ive ever done. and all of u are probably thinking im a slut, but it just happend. me and the guy feel so bad about it. should we tell her or keep it a secret, and what do i say to him? i feel so bad right now. shes my best friend in the world and i kissed her guy. I hate myself right now. i feel so bad. i love my friend to death and i would never try to hurt her but i feel so bad! the guy is awsome, or i thought he was, because he was so great her hot and hes sweet. but he betrayed my friend. and i would never like a guy like that, but when we kissed it was amazing. like i love him, or the way he kisses. but it wasent worth it concitering my friend. i messed up big time but i dont know how to tell her. i love her. and i dont want to hurt her

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It's okay, just pay more attention in english class. You'll grow up one day.

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Your a backstabbing wretch
well tell the guy that your sorry and that it was wrong because thats your best friends boyfriend. and come clean to your friend. just say that you accendentily kissed him. and your really sorry. if you don't come clean soon the problem might get bigger. good luck
You should tell her that her bf is a scumbag and her best friend is a complete whore...

in other words, tell her the truth...
YOU NASTY, IF YOU CARED SO MUCH ABOUT YOUR FRIEND YOU WOULD NEVER OF DONE IT SHE DON'T NEED YOU AS A FRIEND AND SHE DONT NEED HIM AS A MAN
If it is never going to happen again, I would not tell her. Why cause her any pain.
Don't tell her and don't do it again. And pray she doesn't find out.
ur mean, apoligize to your friend.
he betrayed her- you both did and you should not talk to him at all and that would be selfish on your part to tell her over your own guilt.. you need to learn the meaning of friendship and remember that what you do to others will come back on you and don't cry when it does :) :) :)
sadly your friend is going to get hurt no matter what, the damage is done, not you need to be responsible and tell her what happened, how do you think she's gonna feel if she hears it from either her boyfriend or another person. Be ready to lose her friendship or her be ready mad at you for a long time, she's probably not going to trust you anymore. You said "he" betrayed your friend, so did you by kissing her guy, both you and the guy are guilty and it needs to be dealt with before the situation gets worse.
Hmm. i think you should stop what ever you guys are doing and try to forget about him. If his you best mates boy and all i think its really bad to go behind her back and kiss her b/f. If she is a truly good friend you should do the right thing and tell her and c where it goes there.

Goodluck Hun xx
well the truth is going to come out eventually and that is always true. i think it will be better for you to tell her because if he can kiss his girls best friend he can cheat on her with alot of pepople she doesnt even know and when she finds out she will be more heart brocken. alot of people make mistakes and if she really loves you as a friend she will forgive you over time
screw her, if u like him u like him.... go for it. life is about living, not best friends, besides best friends really dont exsist
I don't think you're a s_lut! You do sound a little messed up though. SOunds like you really like this guy. So, he likes you...hmmm...this is a tough pickle. The right thing to do would be to tell you're friend. The wrong thing to do would be to keep cheating on your best friend (you'll feel guilty later). What i would do is say tt u to can't cheat anymore. If he's into you more than into your best friend, tell him to break up with her. Then a week or to later, start going out with him so she dosen't suspect a thing. I know it sounds wrong but this way you won't hurt you friend as much as if you said you had cheated.
tell her that u would never try to hurt her and that it was an accident tell her how much u love her and if he really kissed u and u really did not have any idea that it was about to happen then they should not be together and u tell her that he betray her and that they shoiuld not be together.(but after they break up dont u go after him or she will hate u)
In life there is only one true rule, if you want it, go for it!!!
First things first. you are not an awful person. It just happened. dont listen to those jerks. it is completely reasonable for u to like this guy. u and ur best friend prolly have similar taste in guys. confront ur freind and tell her what happened. tell her u know he is hers, make sure YOU tell her. it will only make it worse if she hears it from someone else. and remeber this, boyfriends are temperary, but ur girls are there foreveer. if ur friendship is true it will all work out. also tell the guy that that kiss ment nothing. GOOD LUCK!
I'm not calling you any thing bad but if I were you I would tell your Friends, and if you like it I bet they guy that kissed you or you kissed him... You'll find out
That's really bad and you liked it too ... i would never forgive you if i was her ...

i think you two better forget about it and she should not know .. you'll both loose her.

And try to prevent this from happening with any other friends' boyfriend.
lol ok if you tell her, the first thing you're gonna have to get used to is not using "best" with "friend" together when you refer to her ... actually if you tell her she might not even want to be your friend. If she's your best friend and you love her and this and that, then why did you do it? Nope, sorry, "it just happened" is not good enough. We have something called a mind. Try using it next time before acting upon situations. Things don't "just happen". That's the wonderful thing about life: We have choices, freedom, and decisions. Upon your freedom, that is what you chose and decided to do. Sorry to come off so harsh on you, but it's the plain truth.

If you want to tell her, be prepared to lose a best friend.

If you're not going to tell her, be prepared to fight with your conscience and guilt.

Decisions Decisions ;)
HI i think what you have done is not right, simply bcoz he is your friends friend, this is the begining of your love with him soon in few weeks or months you will be very close but you will loose your friend, the best way to get out of this mess is inform your best friend what happened and find another guy, good luck in saving your friendship thats more precious than the ugly guy.
ur one fuc*ked up friend... thank god ur not mine!!!

find ur own man... LOSER!!!
those are whore activities and you should stop participating in them. you arent much of a friend if you did this to her. do you feel guilty honestly or guilty that she might find out? dont kiss him again, matter of fact stay away from him.

My lady friends! Was I wrong?

Over the past two months I tried to have sex with two of my female friends. They both basically told my that it would be wierd and it would mess up our friendship. So they rather be with some guy they barely know versus their friend.Don't worry my lady friends were both single at the time I tried this. My brother has the opposite happen to him, his lady friends all want him. Whereas with me, I get the too good of a friend speech. what makes me so different?

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I hate to say this, but it means that they are not attracted to you like that. Maybe they look at you like a older/younger brother. I was in a situation like that and I told the guy the same thing they told you "it would mess up the friendship" But to be honest I wasn't feeling him. Find you a girl and make them jealous, then they might get curious and try you out:-)

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I say that friends with benefits kick *** as long as nobody gets attached which is what messes everything up always.
Maybe you just need some more friends! They just don't want to ruin a friendship and they wouldn't have sex with you because of that!
I'd say the girls just don't like you the way you like them. Maybe they aren't attracted to you in a sexual way, or maybe it's some other reason, but when they say they don't want to ruin a friendship what they mean is "I don't like you that way" or "your like my brother".

sorry, but it's the truth
two things, and you cannot get any more honesty than this:

1. your uglier than ur bro

2. you got less money in ur pockets than ur bro
Ahhhh, you are probably just a great guy friend, and they don't want to lose that! Sex adds drama to a relationship, no matter how good of friends you are, and I'm guessing they both just value your friendship and don't want to goof that up. Not saying your brother is a creep or anything, LOL! Hey, but be careful, if word gets out that you're trying to have sex with all your girl friends, the girls will get mad and you'll be an outcast!!

Good luck! :)
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