Sunday, December 6, 2009

Friends advice?

i know im not the prettiest girl.but most of my friends are and almost all of them have boyfriends or ppl who like them.i LOVE all of my friends but i somtimes get jelous watching them and there boyfriends.i have also never had a 1st kiss.no matter how hard i try i am ALWAYS the guys that i like friends.all my other friends if they like someone then they usually go out with them in the next week or so.i know i will probly nvr b as pretty as they are. but can u give me some advice to not get jelous and maybe have more confidence. also how to let a guy know i like him w/out me telling him. please and thank you!!!



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well first off beauty is NOT the most important thing... there is something absolutely awful about everyone and there are many things absolutely amazing about everyone... these guys you likeee... well i always have my best friend go up to them and tell them i like them because i am also a little bit shy so try that either that or write them a note and tell them how you feel. and it sounds like to me that your beauty isnt whats getting in the way its your self confidence try to raise it a little... write a list about EVERYTHING good about your self and hide it under your matress every night before you go to bed read it... eventually you will gain more confidence... trust me.



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well...even though u might never be as pretty as them, ur very smart. You don't need a guy to feel complete.
Dont be jealous, it's not even worth it! Most guys just think it's cool to have a girlfriend so they just go otu with one they dont even really like them even. Just for show. If you want a boyfriend find a guy you like talk to him and be friends first then work your way up to a serious relationship. Focus on your life, not your friends.
omg thats like EXACTLY wat was happening to me---seriously, thats rly weird. anyway, my advice to u about the jealousy thing is that it's VERY hard not to be jealous of that type of thing so ur gonna have to find other ways to occupy urself. try not to think about ur friends being with their boyfriends. try to be happy for them instead, and the only way ull ever get over ur jealousy is to be happy. so i think that u shud try andget urself a boyfriend...if u feel ready. im sure u dont feel confident in urself right now and thats another thing u need right now to get thru this is confidence. do soemthing that makes u feel good about urself. do u like...going to the beach? writing? anything to boost ur self esteem? maybe think about the things u like about urself---or go shopping..a hair cut? anyway, once u feel better about urself u wont feel as jealous and once uv picked out a luky guy just flirt around with him and try to make it obiouv that u like him w/o throwing urself at him. if he gets it and he liked u back he'll let u no. i hope all goes well. good luck!!!!!!!



im sure u r beautiful! try not to compare urself to ur friends...i know its hard...
Dont worry about it! Maybe your pretty friends are getting too much attention from guys who are only interested in well, let's say not their personality. maybe when you get a boyf it will be because he likes you for you and not just your looks. also, dont judge yourself too harshly. jealously is hard, i bet your friends are jealous of something you've got that they dont. have a think about it and flaunt it! Good luck. Also, never been kissed? Neither have I, trust me, it's no big deal.
I posted a similar situation as yours. We have the same problem. But I say if your confident, look your best and be just yourself, things will go good for you. Good luck and Don't be jealous please.

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