Tuesday, December 29, 2009

How to make friends!!?

How can I make friends?! I have like just 5 friends, people think I'm wierd, but I'm just shy, I wanna know how can I make friends since 1 of my friends moved, and I don't know if she's ok..., and 2 of them are BIG perverts (they changed), so that leaves me with only 2 nice friends. HOW THE HECK CAN I MAKE FRIENDS???



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Wear your beliefs, like on your shirt or using a symbol. That may attract like-minded people who will want to get to know you better.



Another way, ask people what they believe and like to do for fun (not at the same time) when they are not busy doing something really complicated, or trying to party, etc.



Another way is to create a group meant to talk about certain things or do certain that people from your school or community may be interested in. For example, you can make a Bible Prophecy group, and state pick some verse or passage or subject to talk about that week after class or on a certain day during the week, or a group on a certain game like "Go" and have rewards for people who beat a certain number of players.



You can also offer to help students with certain subjects if you are good at one and have the time to, by posting a bulletin somewhere in your school if you have one. You can put some "junk" email that people can use to let you know they want your help in case you get some psychotic spammer.



Another way is to attend a church, especially a Bible study. There is always some Christian, at least in a large group, willing to talk to you. And if the teacher is good, you can compliment him for doing a good job.



If your town is a boring one, and there is a spot where people tend to hang out when they are bored, I would also go there to get to know them. There was one like that were I used to live.



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I think it's great that you have at least 2 friends to hang out with! Some people at my school don't have an friends and sit by themselves at lunch. It's pretty sad.



Anyways be yourself. Try to be a little more outgoing and talk to people in class. Say, "So, what are you doing today." or talk about something big that might be coming up in your school.



Just remember that you shouldn't change to just make people like you. Being yourself and showing your true colors will show some people that you are proud the way you are. =]
BE THE FRIEND TO OTHERS YOU WANT THEM TO BE TO YOU. WHY DO THEY THINK YOU ARE WIERD? IS IT THE WAY YOU PRESENT YOURSELF?



REMEMBER ONE OR TWO GOOD FRIENDS ARE BETTER THAN 20 FRIENDS THAT YOU ARE NOT REALLY CLOSE TO. I HAVE ONE BEST FRIEND FOR 20 YEARS NOW AND MY DAD AND I ARE BEST FRIENDS AND HANG OUT ALL THE TIME. I HAVE MY HUSBAND AND THAT IS ABOUT IT BUT YOU KNOW WHAT? I CAN COUNT ON EACH ONE OF THEM, ANYTIME, ANY PLACE FOR ANY REASON. NT MANY POEPLE CAN SAY THAT.
hey, i'm really glad u posted that question b/c i think i could really help u out. :) i used to be in the same situation the shyness and everything but then one day i thought to myself, "i can have as many friends as i want to have (we all have that choice) this isn't the best i can do. i want to change some for the good. i'm gonna let go of all this shyness lets face it everyone u go to school with are just like u except they all have different personalities. if u c someone in one of ur classes say hey i'm so and so whats ur name? just start from there maybe at lunch get to know the people that sit with. i mean ur gonna be there for a year why don't u make the best of it.oh and one more thing is maybe trying out for a sports team or after school activity or some club even outside of school that would also be a great place to meet someone knew!!! b/c it's still the beginning of the school year and u still have time to meet new people u just have to know how badly do u want friends so you'll know how much u want to come out of ur comfort zone. o yeah "the best way to get a friend is to be a friend!" hope this helps bi!!!
I have the same problem but I'm working on it. what you can do is get involved in some activities around school such as sports to meet other people, get to know the people that sit at your lunch table, find out what there doing on the weekends and get involved with them. I'm a little shy to so I understand, but just strike up a conversation with people and talk about anything that comes to mind.
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To Michelle ..



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Try to be a little more outgoing and talk to people in class. Say, "So, what are you doing today." ?



It's their personal business what they do, don't interfere with their personal lives!

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