my friends group i hang with in skool is really cool and i love all my friends. i never had best friend and favourites and i think thats very good coz otherwise i was going to ignore other people etc...anyway recently my friend Lawrie moved away coz her parents had divorced. she was rele sad and decided to talk and share only with this girl Emma , also in our group. they had an argue few weeks ago and lawrie was in some kind of depression. last week she had a sleeover n asked me if i want to stay 4 da night. i said id luv to as i thought shes asked every1 else but i was wrong. she keeps texting me and talking to me and only to me. i dont mind but i feel very strange. all my other mates cant understand her and stay away from her and ME now. i want to help Lawrie to become the old Lawrie again but i dont know what to do. any suggestions?
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Hi Vamy, when a couple divorce it is very hard on the children, some times they feel abandoned by one or other of the parents, which makes them feel lonely, which is why she is acting strange, she dosnt know what to feel , she realy needs all of her freinds support now, and she probably sees you as a person she can rely on, talk to your other freinds, and im sure any of them with divorced parents have similar storys, put yourself in her shoes, try inviting her to your home for a sleepover so she can see all of the group again , and get them to talk to her, she will be feeling a lot of pain at the moment, please be kind.
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why not talk to lawrie and say that you think she needs group support right now and not just you. that you will still be there for her no matter what but why not start doing things as a group and talking to other people not just you.
she can trust you, be a friend to her nd your other mates are shallow for not trying to understand.....on the other hand have you thought she could be gay....no i'm not being stupid
it sound like you have your hands full
Lawrie sounds like she is going through a stage right now where she has made you her confindant. You might be the only one she believes she can trust to say what she is telling you. People grow and change, the best way to help her is to listen if thats in your personality. The other friends that are staying away, generally is linked to jealousy. You feel apprehensive because shes only talking to you and thats not how your group used to work. They might be feeling left out... Not much you can do besides talk to your friends and let lawrie know your there for her, and so is everyone else; Lawrie will be Lawrie even if the old is Lawrie you knew is gone. Divorce effects everyone involved including the kids...
It sounds to me that what you class as "Your Friends" are far from that, you are doing what you think is right and trying to support you friend who is obviously going through a difficult time. The other so called friends should be there for both of you... support your friend and bin the other callous cows.
friends come and go and by the time you are older you will only have a handlefull of them so hold her dear to you and support her god bless xx
why don't you ask your friends that are ignoring whay they are avoiding you and stuff like that and if they still avoid you and don't want to be with you you can jsut say to yourself that they are not true friends and you need to find some new ones but remeber to treat all of your friends the same as the others and don't pick out a certain one and give them mor attention than your other friends...
Support your friend, and show you care! Don't keep her guessing either - tell her you do - It'll probably help her a great deal.
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