Arguing friends?

(we are all 13 by the way) i have a friend called Louise, she keeps falling out with our (and her) friends. she will probably never make up with Sarah, but now another fight has broken out with Laura. its the exact same to the other fight("shes ignoring me so im ignoring her" is what both sides say) and i really want to bang their heads together! i also have this thing where i HAVE to meddle. i cant help it! and i wondered what i should do. the three girls have VERY strong personalities, and i used to be like that until she fell out with ME, and a teacher tried to fix it, and all the blame was put on me. ever since then im very afraid of upsetting my friends. I know she can be mean but she is my best friend and i can't leave her.

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invite eachother both secretly over and then sit them down adn tell them how immature they are being. they need to realize that this Louise girl is acting stupid, basic stupidy. "blah blah, blah blha" chain reaction. this is how stupid thinks come from, when people do what hte toher does. tell her that you are tired and annoyed and that you want them to make up and explain so ways to deal with it. let it out, you have a LOT of stress- LET IT OUT, girl! TAKE A BREATH! you have a life, live it up- they are ruining it for you.

adn that weight about upsetting them, get over it. if they don't like your decisions then that's stupid. friends understand no matter what. they have that thing that they can tellepathically understand.

i say find more nice friends that understand and are willing to listen. but above is another resort

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Just talk to all of them. I know it will slide. Make onw of them start talking to all of them. I know that is hard, but also remind them that the holidays are coming up and maybe throw a little party. Hopefully you can get them to all get back together. Great that your helping but make sure you keep in mind that this is their battle not yours.

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